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  • Daniel Greene 11:05 pm on January 30, 2012 Permalink | Reply
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    An ethical legacy from Katherine Dreier 

    What I tried so hard to develop in you was the inner power of perseverance which gives one the moral will-power to continue and complete a job, no matter how bored or tired one may be with it.

    Katherine Dreier, co-founder with Marcel Duchamp of the Société Anonyme, knew my great-grandmother Ruth Seely Preston and Ruth’s mother, Charlotte Seely. I inherited a letter from Katherine Dreier to Ruth Seely in which Dreier writes to the census bureau because Ruth had no birth certificate:

    This is to certify that I was one of the workers at the Girls Friendly Society at the time that Charlotte Seely, the mother of Ruth Seely Preston belonged to the Girls Friendly Society of Trinity Protestant Episcopal Church of Brooklyn: Dr. S. McConnell, being the rector and Miss Rodman the deaconess, at that time.

    I was very fond of Charlotte Seely and therefore recall perfectly when she gave birth to her daughter Ruth Seely in the spring of 1901 in Jersey City.

    I recall it very clearly because I had hoped to take charge of little Ruth, when her mother found it impossible to support herself and take care of her child. This turned out not to be feasible.

    I can therefore certify that Ruth Seely Preston was born in this country.

    In the section of the letter written to Ruth, she writes:

    What I tried so hard to develop in you was the inner power of perseverance which gives one the moral will-power to continue and complete a job, no matter how bored or tired one may be with it. Maybe I tried too hard!! Perseverance and endurance are twins! If one develops perseverance one has endurance. But it must be developed in each of us — very few are born with it — and the best way to develop it is through loving what we are doing — not always easy!

    It is a great quality to know that we do not know it all — but it is best to keep it to oneself — for few have reached that wisdom and do not understand. As I have grown older I realized more and more that there is not — good and evil — only understanding or no understanding.

    If we understood — we would not do many things — for every action has it re-action — and we often wonder why life is so hard. This also teaches us great tolerance — which is very needed in the world today.

    Something to grown on and something to chew on. Legacies like this letter are just as valuable, if not more so, than material heirlooms.

     
  • Daniel Greene 10:44 am on January 16, 2012 Permalink | Reply
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    Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.

    Martin Luther King Jr.
     
  • Daniel Greene 11:44 am on July 4, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Tribute to Grandma: Her singing & My signing 

    My grandmother’s stage name was Linda Preston when she was younger, and she recorded this song under her stage name, so I can only guess she recorded it in the ’40s. When she was older, her screen name was Audrey Arent when she acted in TV commercials and as an extra in such movies as King Kong (1976), Turning Point, and Network. She was my maternal grandmother, and the second photo in the slideshow at the beginning is of her holding my mother when my mother was a newborn baby. You can also see Grandma with me when I was a little boy.

    This video is closed-captioned for the signing impaired. ;-)

     
    • J 12:57 pm on July 4, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      Made me cry!

    • user1 2:06 pm on January 6, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Any chance you can do a version in ASL?

  • Daniel Greene 8:34 am on June 21, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Third Anniversary of our California Same-sex Marriage 

    It’s important to recognize that Andy & I were already married by our rabbi on August 8, 2004, in the eyes of God and our close family and friends. Nonetheless, we commemorate today the third anniversary of our “legal” marriage in California on June 21, 2008. California began marrying same–sex couples legally on Tuesday, June 17, 2008, and Andy & I drove Friday night to get to San Diego so we could be married the first day we could. It was not just a political statement, since we were already married and still are, but we did it for political and legal reasons. We went to show California that same–sex couples demanded legal marriage. As it turned out, we were married by a sweet young man who had been deputized for the occasion and was as sympathetic to our cause as can be, and we were blessed to have a few of our closest friends and my mother there to join us. It was, as you can see in the video, a heartfelt, tearful, and joyful occasion. This should not be an ephemeral phenomenon. Same–sex marriage should become legal throughout the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave. It’s way past due.

     
  • Daniel Greene 8:47 pm on June 19, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    One day I realized that my parents weren’t just “my parents,” as I had always selfishly seen them— they were “themselves,” living their own lives for 23/25 years before I was born. And, though they became “my parents” after I came into their lives, they were still “themselves” with the selfish need to take care of themselves when their problems were bigger than me and had nothing to do with me. One thing I can say for my dad is that he never gave me a moment’s doubt that he loved me. I appreciate everything he did to teach me, to guide me, and to show me love. We are all human, flawed, limited, and brilliant in our own way.

     
  • Daniel Greene 4:42 pm on June 12, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    I’m rich! I’m richer than all this new Hollywood trash! I’ve got a million dollars. Own three blocks downtown, I’ve got oil in Bakersfield, pumping, *pumping*, pumping!

    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0043014/quotes?qt=qt0358604
     
  • Daniel Greene 5:55 pm on May 30, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Long beach walk in Sunken Meadow State Park 

    Andy and I took a weeklong vacation to New York the second week of May, and one of our adventures was a long walk on the beach near Kings Park, NY, where I lived for a year–and–a–half as a kid. I put together this video of stills and movies of our time on the beach.

    There are many more photos of our trip in my New York 2011 collection and Andy’s New York Spring 2011 collection on Flickr.

     
  • Daniel Greene 9:42 am on May 30, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    8th Anniversary of meeting each other 

    This is a beautiful visual representation of the Debussy’s piano song Claire de Lune. I thought it apropos because Andy and I bumped into each other at the Claire de Lune coffee house in San Diego on the Saturday of Memorial Day weekend, and then got to know each other at a pool party on Memorial Day.

     
  • Daniel Greene 8:14 pm on May 25, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    I may have seen better days, but I’m still not to be had for the price of a cocktail, like a salted peanut.

    http://www.imdb.com/title/tt0042192/quotes
     
  • Daniel Greene 8:09 am on May 21, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    Andy & I just bought an “It’s OK to be Takei” t-shirt. So funny, and it’s for a good cause. :-) https://twitter.com/#!/danielgreene/status/71953412899614720

     
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