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  • Daniel Greene 11:05 pm on January 30, 2012 Permalink | Reply
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    An ethical legacy from Katherine Dreier 

    What I tried so hard to develop in you was the inner power of perseverance which gives one the moral will-power to continue and complete a job, no matter how bored or tired one may be with it.

    Katherine Dreier, co-founder with Marcel Duchamp of the Société Anonyme, knew my great-grandmother Ruth Seely Preston and Ruth’s mother, Charlotte Seely. I inherited a letter from Katherine Dreier to Ruth Seely in which Dreier writes to the census bureau because Ruth had no birth certificate:

    This is to certify that I was one of the workers at the Girls Friendly Society at the time that Charlotte Seely, the mother of Ruth Seely Preston belonged to the Girls Friendly Society of Trinity Protestant Episcopal Church of Brooklyn: Dr. S. McConnell, being the rector and Miss Rodman the deaconess, at that time.

    I was very fond of Charlotte Seely and therefore recall perfectly when she gave birth to her daughter Ruth Seely in the spring of 1901 in Jersey City.

    I recall it very clearly because I had hoped to take charge of little Ruth, when her mother found it impossible to support herself and take care of her child. This turned out not to be feasible.

    I can therefore certify that Ruth Seely Preston was born in this country.

    In the section of the letter written to Ruth, she writes:

    What I tried so hard to develop in you was the inner power of perseverance which gives one the moral will-power to continue and complete a job, no matter how bored or tired one may be with it. Maybe I tried too hard!! Perseverance and endurance are twins! If one develops perseverance one has endurance. But it must be developed in each of us — very few are born with it — and the best way to develop it is through loving what we are doing — not always easy!

    It is a great quality to know that we do not know it all — but it is best to keep it to oneself — for few have reached that wisdom and do not understand. As I have grown older I realized more and more that there is not — good and evil — only understanding or no understanding.

    If we understood — we would not do many things — for every action has it re-action — and we often wonder why life is so hard. This also teaches us great tolerance — which is very needed in the world today.

    Something to grown on and something to chew on. Legacies like this letter are just as valuable, if not more so, than material heirlooms.

     
  • Daniel Greene 10:44 am on January 16, 2012 Permalink | Reply
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    Darkness cannot drive out darkness: only light can do that. Hate cannot drive out hate: only love can do that.

    Martin Luther King Jr.
     
  • Andy Smithers 11:06 am on August 26, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    I had the please to go to Nashville to celebrate with my family for my sister and brother-in-law’s anniversary. My nieces and nephews, Teri, Melanie, Rob, Bryan, and Beth , did a fantastic job of putting this all together. I wish I had enough time to see my parents make it to such a auspicious occasion. Here is to family. Here is to Love. Here is to Joy!

     
  • Andy Smithers 10:39 pm on July 14, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    I think that our business with Netlix is about to end. What company would charge you 60% more just so they can expand into Mexico and South America? Netflix is who. I know when I’m being screwed and this will not be the company that does it to me!

     
  • Daniel Greene 11:44 am on July 4, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Tribute to Grandma: Her singing & My signing 

    My grandmother’s stage name was Linda Preston when she was younger, and she recorded this song under her stage name, so I can only guess she recorded it in the ’40s. When she was older, her screen name was Audrey Arent when she acted in TV commercials and as an extra in such movies as King Kong (1976), Turning Point, and Network. She was my maternal grandmother, and the second photo in the slideshow at the beginning is of her holding my mother when my mother was a newborn baby. You can also see Grandma with me when I was a little boy.

    This video is closed-captioned for the signing impaired. ;-)

     
    • J 12:57 pm on July 4, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      Made me cry!

    • user1 2:06 pm on January 6, 2012 Permalink | Reply

      Any chance you can do a version in ASL?

  • Andy Smithers 2:03 am on July 1, 2011 Permalink | Reply  

    The last evidence of our hail storm damage will be gone. The siding is going up and it matches the house almost exactly in color. We already notice the room is quieter and more cool than before1 THANKS “Home Depot!”

     
  • Andy Smithers 10:07 pm on June 24, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Please take time to watch the post just below this one of our legal marriage in CA. This marriage caused no one any harm. No one can hate such a beautiful moment. No one anywhere in the US should fear gay marriage as an affliction on the holiness of matrimony. Any person, straight or gay, deserves equality in this civil society. This evening brings hope to many more Americans.

     
    • Daniel Greene 10:46 pm on June 24, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      I, too, hope that the victory in New York tonight brings people hope across our nation. May New York be one more state out of all fifty that will eventually legalize gay marriage!

  • Daniel Greene 8:34 am on June 21, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Third Anniversary of our California Same-sex Marriage 

    It’s important to recognize that Andy & I were already married by our rabbi on August 8, 2004, in the eyes of God and our close family and friends. Nonetheless, we commemorate today the third anniversary of our “legal” marriage in California on June 21, 2008. California began marrying same–sex couples legally on Tuesday, June 17, 2008, and Andy & I drove Friday night to get to San Diego so we could be married the first day we could. It was not just a political statement, since we were already married and still are, but we did it for political and legal reasons. We went to show California that same–sex couples demanded legal marriage. As it turned out, we were married by a sweet young man who had been deputized for the occasion and was as sympathetic to our cause as can be, and we were blessed to have a few of our closest friends and my mother there to join us. It was, as you can see in the video, a heartfelt, tearful, and joyful occasion. This should not be an ephemeral phenomenon. Same–sex marriage should become legal throughout the Land of the Free and the Home of the Brave. It’s way past due.

     
  • Andy Smithers 12:18 am on June 21, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    Daniel and Me had the pleasure to go to San Diego and get married the first day of summer June 21, 2008. We wanted to do this as a statement of legally binding our love in a more formal way. The sad part about it is that same sex marriage has been taken away from those that want it now. As the courts fight over weather on not this should be legal, we are a few of the lucky ones that are. Happy Anniversary to my loving husband on this our third year of our legal marriage

     
    • Daniel Greene 7:21 am on June 21, 2011 Permalink | Reply

      Thanks, sweetheart. I wish everyone had the right to marry. Thanks for marrying me again (the first time being in the synagogue on August 8, 2004). ;-)

  • Daniel Greene 8:47 pm on June 19, 2011 Permalink | Reply
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    One day I realized that my parents weren’t just “my parents,” as I had always selfishly seen them— they were “themselves,” living their own lives for 23/25 years before I was born. And, though they became “my parents” after I came into their lives, they were still “themselves” with the selfish need to take care of themselves when their problems were bigger than me and had nothing to do with me. One thing I can say for my dad is that he never gave me a moment’s doubt that he loved me. I appreciate everything he did to teach me, to guide me, and to show me love. We are all human, flawed, limited, and brilliant in our own way.

     
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